3, no more 2.

Finally, i turned 30 this year. No more young lady. Sigh. But age is just a number lah. Nothing fancy as usual, just simple dinner with friends and family.

3 days before my birthday, uncle leong and annie boon brought me and husband for dinner. We had dinner at The Seeker.

2 days before my birthday, my noobers brought me our for dinner/supper. JS also made me a cheese birthday cake. 

Little Xiao Yu

We're all busy with our own life, but we never failed to celebrate birthday for each other. Heavy rain that night, wanted to leave early but can't. Only leave at 11pm+ bcos little xiao yu sleepy already. Flood everywhere.

My birthday eve, had birthday dinner with my family. 

Bryant grew up dy, and he was shy to sing birthday song to me so he whispered to me instead. haha.

On my birthday itself, I spent my birthday dinner with husband at Kingwood Boutique Hotel. Food were cheap and nice. 

After ordered and waiting for my foods to serve, one lady walked towards me and asked if i'm Daphne Chai and I answered yes. She said got surprise for me, asked me to read my birthday card first. It's from my dearest Kak Faiza and Kak Jess ! So surprise ! 

The cake super cute, I love.

Went Permaisuri after meals, to redeem my free starbuck drink from UMobile TeresThursday.

Went home and have cake cutting with husband with my surprised cake LOL. 

Super bless to have all my loves one around me, be with me during my "big day". May God bless my year of 3x with strength and luck. 

ZALORA Zcoop contributor

Last week, I received an email from Zalora MY, asking if I'm interested for an one-off collaboration. Of course I said yes immediately. It's a good opportunity for me. And after the collaboration, they asked if I'm interested to join their latest project which is ZALORA ZCOOP Publication Malaysia. 

ZALORA ZCOOP Publication is a community in which writers who are passionate and knowledgeable about fashion, beauty, lifestyle, and entertainment come together to produce insightful, current, original, and engaging articles that readers will love and be compelled to share.

I decided to give it a try since I love writing blogs. So... TADAAA ... My 1st writing as a contributing write for ZALORA ZCOOP Publication. Read about my post here : Tips to Be a Good Wife. All my posts will be shown here.

So, I'm officially a Zalora ZCOOP Contributing Write. 😁

Remember to use my BAP code for 15% off for 1st purchase. :)

My daily beauty routine

I'm turning 30 next month, and for this age, our skin is no longer like baby's skin, smooth and fair. We need to put some effort on our skin especially face. 

I used to be a really lazy person which I can go out without any make up, any sunblock or skincare. Just out with dark circle eyes, uneven eyebrows, dark spots etc. I have to accept the truth that for my age now, I cannot be lazy like before anymore. So I slowly started on my skincare / make up routine to make sure I have that beauty looks before I go out. Not really a beauty but try my best not to look worse. 

Everyday after shower, I will put on Nature Republic Aloe Vera Smoothing Gel and that's it. Then started with my simple make up. I use Instant Age Rewind Eraser Dark Circles Treatment Concealer for my dark circle eyes. I have very serious dark circle eyes since I'm young. And this concealer is super easy to use. 

I don't really trim my eyebrows outside, I trim it at home myself and use eyebrow powder daily to have better brow. I use Maybelline Fashion Brow Duo Shaper.



I started to have cracked lips since 28yrs old. I use these two lip balms for my daily routine. I'm still not used to apply the red lipsticks like those beautiful girls yet. Just a little shine on my lips to look better.

After all the above basic makeup routine, I will spray a layer of sunscreen on my face. Just to avoid more dark spots on my face. I use L'Oreal Dermo Expertise Uv Perfect Aqua Essence City Face Mist as my sunscreen.



In my make up pouch, I have all types of make up but rarely use them on daily basis, only special occasion. I need to improve more on my skincare routine as my fine lines and wrinkles around my eyes getting worse. That's sign of aging.

For make up remover, heavy makeup I will use and for simple make up I use Garnier Skin Naturals Micellar Cleansing Water. All in 1.


I also use sheet masks on weekly basis. Mostly moisturizing mask. Sister Diary, Bioglo etc.

For hair, I used Pantene Anti-Dandruff Shampoo and Pantene 3 Minute Anti Hair Fall Conditioner, to have more smooth and healthy hair.



Will try my best to learn more to look better and how to have the natural beauty looks.

Regular Eyes Check Up

Yesterday, 23rd July 2017, I went for my 1st eye check up with my husband, brother and his gf. Mum helped us to make appointment at 9am. So right after our morning mass, we rushed to have our quick breakfast and went Miri City Medical Centre for registration. After we done registration, we were called into the consultation room to check on our eyes sight, to see the numbers from projector. 

Then the nurse asked us to come back around 11am-12noon as Dr were having operation. So we went out for a drink and came back at 1030am. 

We waited till 1230pm then only called into the consultation room. Checked and checked. All of us had healthy eyes except me. I had congenital cataract but just a small one. No need to operate etc just ignore as per the Dr. 

Reached home and fainted immediately. Too tired. Remember to check your eyes too, not only blood test. Contact details as shown in the last picture, remember to call and make your appointment. 

Child Sponsorship

I started child sponsorship program in December 2014. End of last year, I'm thinking to stop my sponsorship program as RM65 a month is quiet hard for me as everything increase price, life getting harder and harder. That RM65 means a lot for me, might be my breakfast money for a week or two.

I emailed the person in charge and told them I would like to stop the sponsorship program. They gave me an option that I can on hold my sponsorship for 6 months and decided again after 6 months whether to continue or not. Of course I accepted. 

So recently they emailed me to follow up on me, whether to continue or not. My heart felt really hard to let go this program as I had been mailing with my sponsored child for 2 years +. I don't want him to feel that I don't want him, not sure if he will know if i stop the program. So they agreed to lower down my contribution to slightly lower. 

I also discuss with my husband, telling him the whole story. He asked me to just continue it, he knew I felt sad if I stop this program. He saw how happy I am everytime I received letters from my sponsored child. He asked me to just continue and he believed God will protect us and bless us with better life. No matter how poor we are, they're more poor than us. 

So, I'm proudly remain as a Child Sponsor again. 

If you would like to sponsor child, do not hesitate to check out here : https://www.worldvision.com.my/sponsor-a-child